Showing posts with label social justice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label social justice. Show all posts

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Why I Care about #Ferguson and #MikeBrown


People are entitled to their feelings.  Everyone is allowed to have an emotion in response to an event; no one else can tell that person their feelings are wrong or invalid.  Sure, the way a person can think and act about something can be adjusted, but a person's feelings can never be wrong.  They just "are".  It's like saying that some heartbeats are more wrong than others; that just doesn't make sense.  Feelings/emotions run deep through the human race.  They run even deeper through closely-knit communities.  This has become evident whenever tragedies happen, such as the recent events in Ferguson, MO.

If you don't know what's happening in the town of Ferguson, or what happened to a boy named Mike Brown, I won't explain it much here.  You can easily do a web search about it, but essentially the issue is about race, discrimination, and police brutality.  Obviously, these are intense issues, and now people are very angry about it.  Mike Brown was a Black, American, teenager who was unarmed when he was gunned down by an officer.  I wasn't there, and there is no way I could have been or will ever be inside the mind of this particular officer's head when he decided to pull the trigger on this boy, so I can't know his exact rationale for shooting him.  The Black (and supporting) community has their views on what happened here, and the reason Brown died, according to them, is evident: Racism.  Discrimination.  Irrational fear of minorities.  Misinterpreted threats.

The last four points I listed are all problems people are seeing when it comes to the police force in the United States.  These kind of things keep happening:  Black men and women are being unfairly judged when it comes to the system of law and order, and for what?  It's because of the color of their skin.  The color of our skin.  I am a Black female, and while I have personally never felt the sting of racial profiling or blatant racism towards me, I keep seeing it happen around me to a race I am a part of.  It's honestly disheartening and grossly unsettling going through life knowing that the country you live in had a history of brutal enslavement of your people; that ONLY 50 years ago it wasn't uncommon for my mother to walk through her hometown in Arkansas and face possible assault or death just because someone hated her skin color; that a random stranger may or may not HATE you just because you look different.  Some people like to believe in the power of colorblindness and that racism is some kind of ancient practice that is dying out.  While, I appreciate that this tries to aim at a positive view, we still cannot ignore the power of racism today.  It's alive and real, and it's becoming more and more evident in our world.

We are angry because this keeps happening.  Why do innocent Black people keep becoming victims of misguided violence?  Why do we keep assuming that black = dangerous?  What's the need to shoot first?  Why does the media continue to portray us as "scary, thuggish, and ignorant" even though everyone working in a media outlet KNOWS EXACTLY what they are doing?  TEXTBOOKS have been written on the impact the media has on society and culture, so why do they keep painting us as Neanderthals???

While at work, I heard my coworkers discussing the protests going on in Ferguson.  Their focus was narrow; they talked about how the protesters just want the name of the officer who shot Brown to be released.  They likened the protesters and rioters to a "lynch mob".  This is a linear point of view which made me angry that they didn't even consider seeing it from a different point of view.  The way I see it, these protesters aren't just looking for a name or somebody to blame.  Mike Brown is dead, and there is nothing we can do to bring him back.  Yes, the people do want justice, but even more so, they want a permanent resolution.  All those problems with society, the police force, and the justice system that I listed earlier?  Yeah. They want those to be fixed.  One way we can fix this is by raising awareness and attempting to open people's minds in public and through social media.  Taking action.  This is exactly what they are doing by protesting.  They are reacting and taking a stand for something they believe in.  Now, the violent rioters and looters have a separate and selfish agenda, but as for the protesters whose hearts and mind are in the right place and all of you posting messages of solidarity, I support you.

Whenever I think about what happened to Mike Brown, I think "that could have been my own brother."  My brother is the same age as Brown was, and coincidentally will also begin college this Fall, just as Brown would have.  So, whenever I think about a young Black man being treated unfairly by police and others, it makes me fear for my little brother.  I also have an older brother; I have similar fears for him.  They can both easily be seen as scary, big, tall, Black males.  In reality, they are the sweetest things you will ever meet.  Stereotypes should never be our primary basis for how we decide to act in life.  I don't care how much you've seen or read about Black men or women.  You know nothing.

So I guess I feel a connection with the community of Ferguson, and the friends and family members of Brown in the sense that we feel pissed off that our community of Black individuals keeps being unfairly judged.  Yes, we are causing a ruckus about it now, but how the hell else are we supposed to get the world to LISTEN?  Heck, most aren't even causing uproars, they're just peacefully protesting.  Yet, Ferguson looks like a war zone...  Like I said before, people are entitled to their feelings.  Feelings are never wrong.  You can't tell us that we are wrong for feeling angry about this.  Similarly, I can't tell anyone that they should feel angry, as well.  If they don't, they don't.  Human experience is an individual thing and (unfortunately) we don't have enough power to tap into people's minds, flip a switch, and make them think like we do.  We can only raise our voices loud enough, write enough words, and display enough images in hopes that others will see the way we do.  I care about the problem of injustice in the Black community because this is my community.  Just because I live in Illinois doesn't mean it's not affecting me.  NEVER think that just because you are geographically removed from a situation means its not going to affect you.  It can always connect back to you.  Everything is connected and everything travels and catches fire.  If you don't already, I hope you start caring.


Also, CLICK HERE to sign the petition to help stop police misconduct!

P.S. - If anyone knows the artist who created the picture above, can you let me know?  And I totally give them credit and kudos :P

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Y teh Gays Shoold Not B Marryedd

This was something condescendingly hilarious, and I just had to share it.  Enjoy, and please... let those gay people marry each other.  The country is already screwed, so I don't see anything bad coming from it except more happy families.  Because, you know... America hates creating happy families :)



Times like these make me want....

a Tumblr account.

Friday, August 12, 2011

Homosexuality a Mental Disorder?

This blog post has nothing to do with dance.  Please read it anyway, please. :)




I didn't think it would be necessary for me to have to write this article, but sadly, it is becoming more and more evident to me that some individuals cannot grasp the simple concept that homosexuality is in fact NOT a mental disease, disorder, or illness.

First, allow me to start off with some basic definitions:
Disease: A disorder of structure or function in a human that produces specific signs or symptoms or that affects a specific location and is not simply a direct result of physical injury.

Disorder: a disruption of normal physical or mental functions.

Illness: a disease, or period of sickness affecting the body.

Now all you have do is apply the word mental (meaning "in the mind/brain") to any of these definitions, and there you have the definition of a mental disease, disorder, or illness.  In the psychology world, these words are used interchangeably, so for the rest of this article I will just use "mental disorder".

It is common knowledge that mental disorders are classified as ones that cause distress and/or harm for the person with the sickness, and potential distress and harm for others around them.  That being said, I will ask my imaginary friend, here:  Do you really think that there is any harm in being a homosexual?  Does being homosexual cause them harm?  Is it causing harm to others around them?

"Yes it causes harm.  Why do you think so many homosexual men and women end up depressed?"
Sure, many homosexual individuals go through life being mental unstable and depressed.  Many unfortunately end their own lives, but back up for a second.  Is it because they are gay, or is it because they are being bullied?  If you said something along the lines of "their gay-ness is detrimental to their own health", then you should go smack your head against a textbook.  Imagine that you go through your whole life with everyone around you telling you that you are worthless, you are weird, and you are going to Hell.  Imagine you were bullied every single day because of what you like.  Heck, I would be depressed, too.  Bulling is the problem, not the circumstance of being gay.  It is a correlation, not a cause-effect situation.

"Okay, but homosexuality is harmful to others around it.  It makes parents upset, and it's just not normal.  Isn't a deviation from normal things considered a disorder."
True, the definition of a disorder is "a disruption of normal" functions.  However, what is normal?  I don't mean to sound like a "hippy", but I'm being serious.  There is a grey area in the "normal" functions of society.  Think about this for a minute:  A long time ago, it was not considered "normal" for women to pursue higher education.  It was not "normal" for people of different races to fall in love.  It was normal for girls to marry and start families before they reached the age of 17.  NOW, we have television shows exploiting the deviation and horror of teen pregnancy.  Case in point; what is considered "normal" today could be changed tomorrow.
Concerning the statement that homosexuality is harmful to others; no.  It's just not.  Really.  No...  Your gay son and his boyfriend are not going to make you die.  So relax.  Sure, it causes distress in some households because people tend to care a lot (and way too much) about what everyone else will think, but none of that should matter.  Remember when little Suzy came home that one time with a tattoo on her arm, dyed her hair pink, and started dating a guy named Flea who owned a motorcycle?  Yeah.  I bet that was a little distressing, too.  How dare she deviate from "the normal"?!  But I also bet you got over it.

"Alright, but I know this guy who went through Reparative Therapy, and now he's not gay anymore.  So he must have gotten his problems fixed."
Okay ma'am or sir...  First of all, my spell checker says that "reparative" isn't even a word...  Second of all, I call bullshit on this kind of "therapy" and so does every other real professional out there in the field.  This is NOT an empirically supported form of therapy, thus there is no way of telling that it truly works.  Homosexuality is not something you can "fix" because it's not broken.  That's like saying I should go to a therapist to get rid of my attraction to White men.  It's absurd!  Just the thought of this so-called "reparative therapy" makes me sick to my stomach.  I'm sure I will be writing more articles concerning it's questionable procedures.
Also, if your "former" gay friend says that the shrink got rid of his gay-ness, there are only two explanations:
One-he is lying to you, and is still very much attracted to the same-sex, but is ashamed of himself because the world around him tells him that he should be.
Two-he never really was gay in the first place.  He probably had one tiny gay thought or experimented in his youth, and now irrationally fears eternal damnation.


Well, I hoped I cleared that up just a bit for those who do not seem to grasp this fact.  Homosexuality is fine.  Homosexuals are fine.  Leave them alone.  They are not sick, and they definitely don't need your help getting on the "right path".  Trying to change them is the equivalent of trying to get me to stop being an awkward person. It's just not going to happen.  Homosexuality is NOT a disease because it does no harm to anyone.  If anything, people who are homophobic should be considered the ones with the sickness.  The deep hatred for homosexuals is more detrimental than homosexuality itself.  Not only are homophobic people chronic bullies, but their fear (phobia = fear) is highly irrational.

If you still aren't convinced that homosexuality is not a disorder, go take a look in the American Psychological Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders.  You wont find homosexuality anywhere in it.  Smart people wrote this manual, and I trust smart people.

Who are the crazy one's now?